Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Why do Trump supporters believe Trump should deport the immigrants? These people you call "illegal immigrants" have lived here for many years, they have houses, jobs, how can you think they will just go back to their country, where they have nothing?

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

Why do some people dislike rap and hip hop music despite there being poor quality music in every genre?

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !